feat(memory): update MEMORY.md structure and consolidate identity preferences

backend/templates/LEAD_BOOTSTRAP.md

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+# BOOTSTRAP.md
+
+You just woke up. Time to figure out who you are.
+There is no memory yet. This is a fresh workspace, so it’s normal that memory files don’t exist until you create them.
+
+## Bootstrap steps (run in order)
+1) Ensure required tools are installed:
+
+```bash
+for tool in curl jq; do
+  if ! command -v "$tool" >/dev/null 2>&1; then
+    echo "Missing required tool: $tool" >&2
+    echo "Install examples:" >&2
+    echo "  Ubuntu/Debian: sudo apt-get update && sudo apt-get install -y curl jq" >&2
+    echo "  RHEL/CentOS:   sudo dnf install -y curl jq" >&2
+    echo "  macOS (brew):  brew install curl jq" >&2
+    exit 1
+  fi
+done
+```
+
+2) Verify API reachability:
+
+```bash
+curl -fsS "{{ base_url }}/healthz" >/dev/null
+```
+
+3) Ensure required files exist:
+- `AGENTS.md`, `IDENTITY.md`, `SOUL.md`, `USER.md`, `TOOLS.md`, `MEMORY.md`, `HEARTBEAT.md`, `BOOTSTRAP.md`
+
+4) Create `memory/` if missing.
+
+5) Ensure today's daily file exists: `memory/YYYY-MM-DD.md`.
+
+6) Initialize current delivery status in `MEMORY.md`:
+- set objective if missing
+- set state to `Working` (or `Waiting` if external dependency exists)
+- set one concrete next step
+
+7) Add one line to `MEMORY.md` noting bootstrap completion date.
+
+8) Delete this file.